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WEEKEND CAMP

SATURDAY NIGHT
5 pm - 8 pm

4/29 | 5/6 | 5/13 | 5/20

$85 per Satuday

$30 per sibling

Only 10 available spots per weekend

WAIVER FORM | REGISTRATION

SUMMER CAMP

2017 SUMMER CAMP DATES

May 30-June 2 | FULL
June 5-8 | FULL
June 12-15 | FULL
June 19-22 | FULL
June 26-29 | FULL
July 10-13 | FULL
July 17-20 | FULL
July 24-27 | FULL
July 31-Aug 3 | FULL

Waiver  |  Registration

Ask to be put on the "Wait List" 
if the week is full

OT SENSORY CAMP

SHINE™  SENSORY HIKING INTEGRATIVE NOVEL EXPERIENCES™
A Counseling and Occupational Therapy sensory group camp
June 9, 2017 – June 11, 2017
 
The program will be offered for children entering Kg through 6th.
Program will have a minimum of 10 students and a maximum of 15.
Costs include all park, recreation, materials fees, summary report, etc.
10 Hour Program (inclusive of end of session report) offered at $37.50/hour 
Non refundable 30% deposit required
Contact Children's Special Services, LLC for registration forms and more information

Say "I" when "You" fight

Fighting is inevitable within any relationship, but it does not have to be a negative or a destructive experience.  If both parties are fighting to improve the relationship and the situation rather then wanting to “be right” or to “win”, a lot of good can come from a confrontation. 

How language is used is important to not only being productive, but also to be caring and loving.  Wayne Misner (Men Don’t Listen) argues that ’I’ statements are not as offensive when you’re trying to be understood”.  After all, what is the goal of your fights?  What are you hoping will change? What are you fighting about?

Phrases that can be useful includes:  I notice, I assume, I wonder, I suspect, I believe, I resent, I am puzzled, I am hurt, I regret, I am afraid, I am frustrated, I am happier, I want, I expect, I appreciate, I realize, I hope 

If you are not used to using “I” phrases in your fights, this list might seem a little overwhelming.  Wayne Misner suggests using “I hope” first, but most importantly leave the “you” out of it.

Good luck in your next fight, and may the both of you be understood and both of you win.